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2012 resolution!

2012-01-01T23:13:00.000-08:00

Time flies, another 365 days passed and it's time to do a "year end evaluation"

2011 was a year with a lot of challenges,

relationship ended in 2010 yet still so much drama in 2011.

Finally these drama so called ended and I wish "he" can find his own happiness and all the best for him.

Almost change job towards the end of 2011, yet being found out by bossessss (so many bosses knew about it, HR director, business director, controllersss, etc.) and being countered offer so I ended up staying for at least 1 more year (Not sure if this is considered as 不幸中的大幸？！)

2011 I went several countries for work, Houston (3rd and 4th time), Jakarta (n times), Abu Dhabi (1st time). Besides these, 2011 is a year with lots of holidays. Batam, Malacca, KL, Taiwan... First overseas trip with Mama at Taiwan, tried my best to bring her the best I could, SQ flight, Krisflyer business lounge, endless shopping and makan. Although she might not appreciate all, but I wish she knows how much I did for her, just like how much she sacrifice for me.

2011 I met someone, whom I met 6 years ago, and ended everything 6 years ago with so much regrets. This someone makes me 2011 a special year, I somehow change myself a bit, partly due to his influence. Thanks to him :)

2011 resolutions which I set last year, I kind of fulfill 90% of it! Yeah!

- I passed my CPA Singapore exam, not yet converted to CPA Singapore as I haven't got the testi done :p

- I learnt how to swim!!! This is a great achievement for myself, as I always have phobia to water. It really takes up a lot of courage to learn this. It was really tough in the beginning, drank lots of water in the pool, choked and how good I feel when I can breathe using my nose! But I manage to overcome all these obstacles and finally I know how to swim using frog strokes and water trekking now!

- I went to Batam, Kota Kinabalu, Taiwan for my own leisure trip, so called fulfill my plan of at least two destinations in a year (1 far 1 near). I remember I said I wanna go Japan in Apr, but maybe it's god will that I should not go, cos there is tsunami and earthquake happened during then. May natural disaster never happen again as it brings too much sorrow and pain to human, god bless.

- I signed up a 2 months package at Style Fitness, thanks to deal.com.my. I went there for 5 times during these 2 months, each time spent about 1.5hrs there, but I think I prefer swimming than work out, so eventually I did not extend my package. Have to find another way to work out more!

- The only thing that I did not fulfill is to lose 2kg. I will bring forward this resolution to 2012!

Now it's time for 2012 resolutions!

1. As mentioned above, since I did not manage to lose 2kg in 2011, this will be brought forward to 2012!

2. Travel is a must! I have booked Batam, Manila and Cambodia in Feb 2012. I did not mean to plan it all in one month, but I guess this is god's will too. So for the rest of the year, I have a "far" category trip to play around with! Destination pending :)

3. As the new house is expected to be completed in mid 2012, I wish the renovation could be done by end of 2012 and my whole family can move into the new house! We have been waiting for almost 2 years, so looking forward to it!

4. Thinking about learning a new thing in 2012, as people have to continue upgrade ourselves! Tennis? Squash? or maybe bakery is a good idea! Ok, I wanna learn how to cook in 2012!

5. Target to save more more more money this year! I have to set aside certain amount of money for new house, therefore I need to control my spending and save more!

I think that's all for 2012, new year new hope, I cut my hair short after keeping it long for almost 5 years! Let's hope the new hair brings me good luck in new year! :D

有没有

2011-11-15T06:11:00.000-08:00

有没有那么一个人

让你觉得遗憾自己没有在对的时间遇到他？

所以有些人不那么早认识，

是命运的安排。

p/s: 看着J的照片，我有感而发，祝他幸福 :)

Pray

2011-03-11T08:13:00.000-08:00

8.9 magnitue earthquake happened in Tokyo Japan
Heard that it's the 7th largest earthquake ever

I seriously do not wish to see any of my friend flying to Japan now
No matter how you are
No one pls...

Never mess with nature
Human always appeared to be too fragile when it comes to natural disaster

SIN to NAA 0055am
Touch down safe pls...

p/s: When was the last time I feel so worry about someone?
Praying hard...

Far far away.

2011-02-08T04:27:00.001-08:00

I feel like to go somewhere.

Somewhere nobody knows me.

Somewhere no stress, no worries.

Somewhere I can just walk without any destination.

I always thought I’m just stress with my work,

But yet I think I’m stress with my life.

Don’t.

Don’t remind me something that I’m trying to forget.

Don’t.

Don’t push me for something that I don’t wish to talk about it.

Just don’t.

Please. Spare me.

我内疚了，你成功了

2011-02-03T21:09:00.000-08:00

今天看了《非诚勿扰2》
故事的情节有些很熟悉的地方。

时间让人互相了解，
时间也让人渐渐变得陌生。

这一首诗，是剧中的女儿在爸爸的追悼会上念给他听的

你见，或者不见我　　
我就在那里　　
不悲不喜　　

你念，或者不念我　　
情就在那里
不来不去　　

你爱，或者不爱我　　
爱就在那里　　
不增不减　　

你跟，或者不跟我　　
我的手就在你手里　　
不舍不弃　　

来我的怀里　　
或者　
让我住进你的心里　　
默然　相爱　　
寂静　欢喜

这一首歌，是片尾曲《最好不相见》

最好不相见便可不相恋
最好不相知便可不相思
最好不相伴便可不相欠
最好不相惜便可不相亿
最好不相爱便可不相弃
最好不相对便可不相会
最好不相误便可不相负
最好不相许便可不相续

但曾相见便相知
相见何如不见时
安得与君相决绝
免教生死作相思

这部戏，很平静，却让人有很多省思。

不喜欢被人逼着做决定，
通常在这种情况下我只会说我什么也不要，
离我远一点。
所以我是个需要很多patience来应付的人。

我内疚了，你成功了。

Goodbye 2010, Hello 2011 :)

2011-01-01T04:42:00.000-08:00

Last night we bid goodbye to 2010,

the first time I joined the crowd for Siloso Beach Foam Party

for the New Year's eve countdown!

It was a night with lots of fun!

12 of us, some get to meet each other only the first time,

we rocked Siloso Beach!

Music & dance,

DJ spinning all night long,

and the foam pool,

of cos fireworks as well!

We welcome 2011 with new hope, new resolution!

If I would like to conclude 2010 with one word,

it's "FAST"!

2010 ends in a blink of eyes,

as most of the time I was busy with work.

I seriously don't know why would I end up become a slave of work.

2010 I ended my 5yrs relationship,

knowing that there's a need to reconsider about who am I gonna spend my future with.

2010 I went to Bali and Korea,

it's a target I set for myself that I want to travel to at least two countries in a year,

I love travel, love experience anything other than Msia,

and I made it :)

2010 I achieved another milestone in my life by getting a new house for my family,

this has always been in my mind and I would like to let them live comfortably.

2011 is a brand new beginning,

few resolutions I would like to set for myself!

1. Lose 2kg

The recent health screening review shown that I have been gaining weight,

and I think I've become shorter too?!! (I wonder why)

2. Sign up for fitness class, attending at least 2hrs/wk

Other than lose weight,

I need to keep myself fit as well.

Metabolism starts slowing down after woman 25yrs old,

and ever since start working I have been in sitting position at least 8hrs a day,

that makes me lose my flat tummy -.-

Yoga, Pilates, Kickboxing...

whatever it is, must attend at least 2hrs lesson per week.

But seriously, 2hrs per week is not a lot right???

3. Become CPA Singapore

CPA Australia was once in my mind,

however I decided to drop it out of idea because I do not think

I will want to become an accountant in anywhere out of Singapore.

Therefore CPA Singapore should be sufficient to make a living.

Just to arrange some time out of busy work schedule,

take up a 5days course and pass the test,

I will get my CPA Singapore done.

4. Learn how to swim

Yes, I don't know how to swim

(laugh all you want if you feel like to -.-)

Cousin has given me few lessons before however I still did not pick up swimming eventually.

I think I really need to find myself a proper coach,

pay to have proper lesson and learn how to swim.

5. Travel to at least 2 overseas countries

My ladyboss always says "1 far 1 near is the minimal"

Japan and Australia is in my mind for the "far" category

Phuket or any other Southeast Asia country is fine for the "near" category

So far there is only 1 trip for next year is confirmed

Sahah in Jul'11.

Calling for kaki for Japan trip,

preferably Apr'11 cos I want to see cherry blossom,

anyone?

6. Save money, as much as I can!

I wanna save money as my capital for own business,

I wanna have my own bridal shop!

So other than the new house,

and maybe overseas trip,

no more spending of big money or unnecessary money!

I think that's all about it,

shall review how many of them would I achieve by the end of 2011!

Let's hope the best to come in 2011,

the worst has gone with 2010!

Happy New Year everyone :)

Quotes

2010-12-18T08:57:00.000-08:00

Some random quotes to share...

When you do not know how to face it,

Avoid it, or destroy it.

Make it as if it never exists.

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Craziness is about doing the same thing time and again,

Yet expecting different results.

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I am independently unstable by myself,

Not being emotionally attached to anyone.

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Two ways to quit addiction on something,

It’s either you keep yourself away from it,

Not to see, not to hear, not to touch,

Like how people quit smoking.

Or you just don’t bother about it and keep doing the same thing,

Then overdose make you feel sick of it,

And you no longer want to touch it,

Like how people quit eating chocolate.

So which way would you prefer to quit addiction on someone?

Estimation

2010-12-14T06:29:00.000-08:00

I overestimate myself
and underestimate you.

Damn!

Just the way I am

2010-10-14T09:02:00.000-07:00

今天一早，因为穿着从little match girl新买的裙子，
心情是漂亮的～
女人有时其实很简单，
因为一件新裙子，
心情可以瞬间变好。
女人却也可以因为一段对话，
而让美好的心情变坏。

有人说我不够outgoing,不够outspoken
不会socialize，表现得很不approachable.
所以我的生活圈子就是那么小，
小到没有新的朋友出现。
有人说我要改变，
少点OT，多点socializing,
这样我才可以扩大社交圈子。

我说，我从来不知道自己的外表是那么不approachable，
直到我想想，最近生活中还真的没什么新的朋友出现
我只想跟我想要hang out的人一起hang out，
我只想跟和我投缘的人说话，
不ngam key的多说两句也只是应酬。
不是说我不会应酬，
但有时真的工作累到我不想去应酬不想应酬的人，
甚至我问自己“为什么要苦了自己？"
但原来这样会让人觉得，我不approachable。

Different character attracts different group of people
I'm just praying that, there will be someone, who loves me just the way I am.

Complidated mind.

2010-09-11T11:38:00.000-07:00

Sometimes I wonder how complicated can my mind be.
It is in fact more complicated than it appeared to be.
Nobody fully understand.
They thought they know,
but there's still something which nobody can understand,
not even myself.
I do ask myself,
what the hell are you thinking about?

240am.
Insomnia.
Thinking about nonsense.
Missing someone whom I shouldn't miss.
Insane me.

一个在新加坡工作的马来西亚人的心情写照

2010-09-05T08:30:00.000-07:00

爸爸妈妈和弟弟今天送我回来新加坡，
在我送他们到楼下看着他们上车的时候，
看着他们的背影，
我的心突然纠在一块，
很难过。

因为那2.3的兑换率，
我必须待在这里，
一个人，
跟我的家人分开，
一个礼拜只能见一次。
很多人说，
你就好咯，
赚新币回来花马币。
这些人只看到我们的好，
却不知道这些所谓的“好”是要用某些东西来交换的，
比如跟家人相处的时间。

虽然说就那么过一条桥，
却有一种so near yet so far的感觉，
就这么一小段距离，
却还是没办法克服，
因为那“2.3”.

我要努力做工，
我要努力赚钱，
尽快还清房贷，
尽快存钱做我要做的生意，
然后离开新加坡，
回到我的家人身边。

I miss papa
I miss mama
I miss my bro
I wanna be with them everyday

与所有在新加坡工作的马来西亚人共勉之。

I'm somebody who belongs to nobody

2010-08-14T03:41:00.000-07:00

Life has been pretty busy recently,
work has made me totally exhausted.

A lot of things happen,
major thing like...

It's finally the month of appraisal review,
and my hard work for the past 1 yr finally being paid off,
with 2grades jump in my company,
no change of title though,
but slight change in pay *winks*
(of cos I salute financial stewardship more than just a silly title)

secondly, I booked a trip to Korea!
Having my bestie - Jing Mein as the best companion!
We both are so desperate to go for vacation,
initially we have New Zealand in our mind,
but while we went to survey in Matta fair and MITM fair
(so shiok that both of them were held in JB)
there wasn't a lot of tour packages to New Zealand though,
think there is not many Malaysian interested in NZ.
Therefore we discussed about it and came to a decision in 10mins time,
let's go KOREA!
As there are many promotions of Korea tours,
so we go 1 by 1 to compare their packages and price.
Finally we settled on "Sin Chung" as they offer the package which is most-matching to what we want, with competitive price of cos!
Therefore Korea confirmed!
It has been soooo many yrs since me and Mein last travelled together,
since primary sch grad trip like 12yrs ago?
(oops! this reveals my age =p)
coming Oct, we gotta go there to collect maple leaves! hahaha

Having booked the Korea tour,
we got two pairs of complimentary ticket for the popular Nanta Show!
(In case you're wondering what is "Nanta", check this out!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XQ-hFrhE_Q)

So I specially make a trip back to JB on Mon after work,
me, Eelin, Mein and her Jui,
4 of us we watched a fantastic show of Nanta.
*I love the lady, she's cool!*

It was only highlight of their performance,
45mins out of the total 2hrs,
the rest of the time are about video-screening of Korea,
Korea cultural dances, bla bla bla.
Of cos they won't let you watch the full show lah,
tix selling at hundreds in SG leh!
What they're trying to achieve is to attract you to Korea,
if you want to watch the full show, go KOREA!
Anyway this makes me even more looking-forward to go Korea!
Kimchi, Bibimbap, Doota, Faceshop...
Here I come!

Next thing is, I went to watch the theatrical circus in RWS
"Voyage de la vie"
"A theatrical rock circus spectacular, Voyage de la Vie tells the universal story of a young man seeking to discover his destiny. His journey through his imagination leads to him meeting an eclectic collection of eccentric characters, who each reveal a facet of life before reaching a final stunning climax, which will have audiences on the edge of their seats. "
Maomao manage to get tix at 50% for the SGD88 category,
so we paid only SGD44 each! yeah!
I love watching circus.
I remember my dad used to bring to watch circus when I was a kid,
it was those kind of camp which got clown, animals, bikes bla bla bla.
But dunno since when I never see any camp of circus appeared anymore.
I gotta say it is really a fantastic performance!
Spectacular stage design + superb gymnastic talent!
You'll definitely find it too short as a 1.5hr performance!
I think every performer there can be Olympic athlete loh!
After watching this, I think I'm even more determined to watch "Cirque du'soleil"
however the tix is soooo much more expensive!
I will definitely watch it one day!

Airasia and Jetstar are having great sales on air tix for the past few days,
so I siao-siao booked the Sabah ticket at airasia!
Guess what? RM35 for round trip per pax!
DARN CHEAP right?
it's even cheaper than the bus tix to KL? I think!
me, Si Chyi, Maomao and her boy,
so far 4 of us confirmed!
By the way, it's next yr Jul,
so we are all thinking
"aiya, so far from now, just book first loh,
if by the time cannot go then just forget it,
RM35 nia, lol"
However, if we are really going,
I think we have to be mentally and physically prepared,
train ourselves well to climb Mt KK!
I din even climb Gunung Lambak at Kluang before,
and I'm thinking about Mt KK,
how funny it is right?
and we ALMOST booked the tix to BKK as well,
cos jetstar promo only at SGD128 departing from Singapore!
however we stop ourselves from doing that,
as I have Japan in my mind as well!

So there goes my travel schedule
Sept'10 - Houston (confirmed!)
(this one is for work lah, 1 wk nia, nothing so fun abt it, but I guess I die die wanna squeeze some time to do some shopping?! =p)
Oct'10 - Korea (confirmed!)
Apr'11 - Japan (TBC)
(I have very strong desire to go there in Apr for cherry blossom, what unknown now is my travel mate)
Jul'11 - Sabah KK (confirmed!)
Hmm... how about add another Australia during Oct or Nov'11?
Aww... my mind is all about travel travel travel!

One last thing,
I ended my 5yrs relationship.
It wasn't an easy decision,
but I just think that to take a break is the best for both of us.
I realized, break up is so tiring.
Tears, emo, and sometimes about blaming,
how ugly it is.
Anyway, I'm single now.
Someone said "单身的女人很容易枯竭"
I simply speechless.

Life has not much difference from usual,
I'm still as busy as I am,
busy about budget preparation,
and soon need to prepare for system testing of Houston trip.
Brain dead ah~~~

Watson's Freak!

2010-07-15T05:51:00.000-07:00

I am a Watson's freak!
Once step into Watson's,
I just can't come out empty handed!
Today went Watson's again,
supposed to buy only 1 important thing and head back home,
end up I grabbed 13 items in my shopping bag!
*faint*

There is 1 thing I would like to introduce here
"Essential Rich Premier Nourishing Hair Lotion"
I came across this in xiaxue's blog,
http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2010/07/transform-your-hair-part-ii.html
and while I passby the rack of Esential,
spotted this hair essence,
I decided to grab 1 back!
Being indecisive between the pink and orange,
eventually I chose the orange one,
namely "Rich Premier Hair Essence",
which is to achieve soft and manageable hair.
The pink one is called "Nuance Airy Anti-Frizz Serum",
which is to achieve light and bouncy hair.
From xiaxue's blog link above,
you can see a more detailed explanation about the difference between pink and orange,
so I shall not repeat here.
Anyway, both are strongly recommended for damaged, colored and dry hair!

I tried it immediately after shower,
I like the light texture,
not sticky at all,
easily absorbed by my hair.
Smell nice,
it's the sunflower smell.
My hair is soft aft blown dry!
The most important thing is,
value for money!
60ml for $10.90 only!
That's so much cheaper compared to my Shiseido leave-on conditioner
and Shiseido one smells awful -.-
Definitely a "BUY" for this Essetial product!

Another thing I got from Watson's,
"Neutrogena Hydro Boost Mask"
I always feel the Neutrogena new Hydro Boost range seems not bad,
but in view of my always-cant-finish skincare,
I think I shall stop buying!
Spotted the mask at only $2.95 (usual price stated $4.95)
so I decided to buy 1 and try!
It's now in the fridge
(ya I used to put mask in fridge before use, cooling effect, and some said tighten pores!)
shall try it later will update again for the review!

ciao~

Hadalabo Free Samples :)

2010-07-09T09:09:00.001-07:00

[fwd] Why didn’t I meet any nice guys?

2010-06-05T01:12:00.000-07:00

Share a nice article forwarded by DX

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Why didn’t I meet any nice guys?

The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you.

He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or

even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do

things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior

was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming

that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too

poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend

at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other

guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became

boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship.

So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you

wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his

consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the

hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or

make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen

when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend

that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the

complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of

nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.

2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.

3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to

have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality,

shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. You're getting older, after all.

It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

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You didn't meet any nice guy, or you have actually missed them?

Quit the addictive stuff

2010-06-01T09:12:00.000-07:00

I hate waiting,
without knowing how long I have to wait.
There is no certain date/timing,
and I just keep counting and counting.
I dunno when will I lose the patience.

It's time to stop,
stop the wilfulness,
stop the craziness,
stop the addiction.

It's like smoking.
There's definitely a way to quit it,
it all depends on how much is you determination.
You never heard ppl died due to quit smoking right?
So yes, it means that there must be a way to quit,
all you have to do it to control yourself,
slowly and slowly,
you will even forget how does cigarette taste like.

I need you like water like breath like rain
I need you like mercy from heaven's gate

Ask, Believe, Receive

2010-05-31T07:52:00.000-07:00

The Law of Attraction has created quite a big hoo-ha in town,
to put it simple it's all about three steps:

Ask: Know what you want, and Ask the universe for it.
Believe: Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way.
Receive: Be open to receiving it.

I must start practicing it,
I need to know what I want,
I must believe that I will see it coming to me one day,
Eventually open my arms to receive it :)

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The call is coming on time,
to prevent myself from sinking deeper,
otherwise I can't imagine how's the consequences.
You're still the one for me,
thank you.

End this post with a nice song by Redwan Ali

Prank mail

2010-05-26T18:51:00.001-07:00

Do you guys always receive email like this?

FW: INTI College Chris Yeoh needs help‏

I received the above email today from a friend, out of curiosity I went to google the email stated at the end of the post, and this is what I found:

source: http://stact.clubme.net/stact-news-f12/do-not-forward-chris-yeoh-need-help-t85.htm

Hey guys, pls do not forward the email >> "INTI College Chris Yeoh need help".

STACT club has decided to help the guy, Chris Yeoh, whom we believed he has testicle cancer, so we contacted him. He clarified that everything spread through e-mail is FAKE.

so.... pls DO NOT FORWARD THE MSG again~

Below is the msg from Chris Yeoh:

Hi Chi Heng,
The truth is that a coward had make a spam regard about myself in fake information and spread the mail beyond expected. I do not know the motive for him/her to create that spam.
So far, INTIMA president at INTI International College Penang promise to help me to contain the spread. At the same time, I had sent another email to inform other people about my situation. I do hope that they can help me to contain the spread. Anyway, thanks for giving me the good news that my effort had began to taking effect.

FYI: I do not have any disease or cancer

From: Chris Yeoh Khong Wooi (chris_5068@hotmail.com)

I dunno what's the motive behind for the person who first spread the email.
Does he/she finds it very fun to cheat on people's sympathy?
So people just being kind and keep fwd fwd fwd the email, then the person feels that he has achieved anything?

Anyway, just to tell you guys that nowadays there are a lot of prank mails, just be careful and dun be cheated.
If it's only sympathy cheated then nothing so serious about it, but what if it's something else one day?
Just be alert!

Passion

2010-04-22T07:01:00.000-07:00

突然很怀念
年轻的时候那种
说爱就爱
说走就走
的激情

感情久了
有的人说像酒一样
越久越香醇
但我却觉得
像汽水一样
泡沫越来越少
少了那种所谓的
Passion

你知道
I need you
You need me
那么passion
去了哪里？

难道这种感觉
真的年轻才有
如今不复存在？

Changes

2010-04-07T06:15:00.000-07:00

Somebody told me today, “u’re not the same old you already :(”

I think we lack of that mo qi now.

Yes, I admit that.

I once thought that there is something which will never changed.

Until people makes me realized that “No, it does change”

So I changed myself to accommodate to the changes.

I learnt to rely less on people, count on myself is better.

You did change from time to time, not the same old you anymore, isn’t it?

No matter changes are good or bad,

we still need to accept that.

Appreciate

2010-03-20T21:04:00.000-07:00

I know I make so many people worry about me,
rest assured, I'm still alive,
keep on struggling in life.
Struggling means,
I'm still breathing :)

Thanks all for your concern
I appreciate :)

Just a lil bit more :(

2010-03-18T07:47:00.000-07:00

Today is definitely a bad day for me.
The same problem at work has been haunting me for weeks,
Corporate people just don't spare me,
or maybe they don't even have choice,
as they also have their own boss to answer to :(

I study the template for weeks,
I analyze the actual result for weeks,
I compare the variance for weeks,
yet I still could not solve the problem :(

Why?
I just don't understand why?
Why I can't solve this?
Why am I putting so much effort,
yet I still can't solve this?
Is it because there is no way to solve?
Well, this is definitely not a good answer to tell your boss.
Is it because I am too dumb?
When people develop something and tell you this is valid,
you can verify this,
it really works!
Why the hell am I still struggling on this
just because it doesn't work on my situation?

Colleagues are worrying about me,
they think that I over stressed myself.
While I keep thinking,
if I work harder,
there will be something pops out in my mind,
and that's the answer!
If I work harder, just a little bit harder...
Is it because now I did not work hard enough?

Despite of so much effort put in,
all I see is failure.
I can't answer to my boss,
I think I let them down :(
I don't want people to think that I'm finding excuse for myself,
but I already left with no idea :(

I'm tired.
It is still a "why".
Why I just can't solve it?

Since when I lost my self-esteem?
I no longer confident in myself,
especially work.
I always being absent-minded.
I panic when I have to explain on something
which I am very new to it.
I was ok before that,
but I reveal all weakness when I am standing in front of boss.
People has been telling me,
doing such thing at my age,
with just 1yr+ experience,
I am actually good enough.
But why am I still seeing myself
so dumb, so unprofessional, so immature.

I cried,
not because I want to ask for sympathy,
is because I mad at myself,
why I just can't solve it?

I ain't perfect

2010-03-16T08:16:00.000-07:00

习惯一早起来就去check fb,
看看昨晚我睡着后大家都在fb上post了什么，
结果看到的是某个status update，
心里揪了一下，
然后在上班途中播着戴爱玲的《沸腾》，
是什么把我的思绪弄得乱七八糟，
I want to get rid of this from my life!
I should not even have care about this at all!
But why my emotion so easily affected by this?
When can I become immune?

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今天工作看着To-do List,
依然有十几样东西pending，
我不怕东西多要做，
只怕要做的东西我不会做。
结果就在极度慌乱时，
我竟然做了一件蠢事，
实在是觉得自己怎么可以那么粗心而不再三检查。
很内疚，怕因为这样而害了大家。
Ever since I started working,
I realized there are always so many things to be completed,
yet so little time to do it.

I know mistakes are inevitable in the learning process,
but some mistakes you just cant make,
not even once.
and today I just made another one :(
I feel stressed again,
I start questioning my ability again.
I used to think it's not whether you can do it,
it's whether you want to do it.
When there's a will, there's a way.
But in real life, it's so hard to do things perfectly.
I aint perfect though :(

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I have a wild thought.
Can I just do something crazy?
I feel like to know,
what would happen if I am not who I am now?
Who will be there for me?
If I regret, I wanna revoke anytime.
Can I?

Liese Hair Color & Essential Hair Mask

2010-02-11T06:16:00.000-08:00

My very first try on DIY hair dye,
using the Liese Hair Color from Kao's.
I got it at SGD19.90 from Watson's,
color=Sweet Pink!

This is how my hair color look like before I dyed,
duo tone!My natural color is very very dark,
with light brown at hair end,
left over from the very last time I dyed it,
which was....1yr plus ago?

What does the box contain?

1st step is to pour mixture 1 into mixture 2
then slowly mix the two liquid together by turning the bottle up and down
remember don't shake hard!

Put on the plastic gloves,
start pressing gently on the bottle waist,
there comes the foam!

So I use both my hands to put all the foam onto my hair,
start from the root.
it's quite difficult for me as I never tried dye my own hair.
(in fact I never helped ppl to dye also)
So end up this is how my foamy hair look like.

Long hair like me should finish the whole bottle,
short hair can use two third of it.

Leave it for another 20-30mins,
rinse it off,
and use shampoo to wash it again.
I feel my hair very rough like barbie doll's hair,
so I quickly use hair mask to rescue it!

Introducing the nicest hair mask I ever used,
Essential Hair Mask!
pink one, which is for light and bouncy hair.
(available at Watson's for only SGD9.90)
See, Watson's is my best friend cos I always manage to buy smtg there =X
So I applied the hair mask,
leave it for another 20mins,
rinse off again.
After I dry my hair,
it is very smooth now!
Thank god!

This is how my sweet pink look like,
well I feel it is more like dark brown,
quite different from what the color guide shows:
and it doesnt really cover my hair end previously dyed,
which is in light brown.
Maomao cant tell tat I dyed it actually,
so I'll see tomorrow how does the color look like under the sun.
Dunno whether the color will fade after a few days.
I shall update again after 1 week to show u all how is the color then.

Overall rating for Liese Hair Color:
★★★★☆

It is pretty easy to use and the color is pretty natural.
A good start for ppl who wanna try DIY their hair color.
Deducted 1 star due to the smell,
I was supposed to leave it on for 30mins before wash it off,
but my eyes start feeling pain after 20mins because of the unbearable smell >.<>

Overall rating for Essential Hair Mask:
★★★★★

Definitely a "MUST BUY" item!
Love the smell,
love the result,
love the price,
my hair is light and bouncy now! haha

Road Sign

2010-02-09T05:06:00.000-08:00

Ken said he saw this during lunch time!
LOL!

For your information,
FX=Foreign Exchange
Yes, I love my job!
I LOVE HEDGING!

Rush Hour!!!

2010-01-31T06:00:00.000-08:00

*My latest DP, Jihia said this looks like Lady Gaga, haha*

Party with KJ YL HS at St James last time,
club hop between Boiler's Room & Movida,
din manage to get into Powerhouse cos it was fullhouse!!!

*lovely babes-KJ & YL*
Dance to the max,
enjoyed the music in Movida,
now Im rating it as my fav club ;)

We actually set a theme last night,
for our bday girl-KJ
Stocking!!!
Everyone must come in stocking!!!
I bought mine in KL Times Square,
love the big ribbon ;)

Lots of pix in KJ's camera,
gotta upload it when I got it from her.

Reached home at 5am -.-
Exhausted
Yet I woke up at 10am this morning!!!
Wat's wrong with me?
I shud have slept all the way until 12pm,
argh!!!!

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Again, I jio Mein to come Singapore shopping!
haha
Everywhere in Bugis is full of crowd,
ppl busy buying CNY clothes.
I have some new tops & dress in my wardrobe,
which newly bought and not yet worn,
but all in black -.-
Dunno why end up buying black tops & black dress -.-
I need some bright color clothes for CNY!!!

We went for dinner at BenTen @ Iluma
Had the chicken teriyaki steak
and Mini Salmon Don (this is not Mini at all -.-)
Finally the Ice cream!

they have a wide variety of ice cream there
or if you are brave enough,
challenge their biggest one called "Anbiry Baburu"
or the second biggest called "Never give up"
(I like the name, eat till u never give up, haha)

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Damn!
1030pm again!
Every since working,
I find myself get tired easily!
Less hang out at night,
less late night movie,
Working really worn me out :(

陈鸿珠老师，一路好走。

2010-01-27T08:10:00.000-08:00

问了自己很多遍，
最后还是选择不要回去。

不回去，
不代表我忘了你。

与其面对这个难过的时刻，
我宁愿心里的印象
还是停留在那个在我中学时期，
脸上挂着笑容的你。

你知道很多人不舍得你，
但无奈还是得走了，
但你留下的却是大家心里永恒的记忆。

陈鸿珠老师，
希望在另一个世界的你，
是快乐的。

带着你的教诲，
我们继续人生的道路。

一路好走。

I perm it :)

2010-01-16T05:42:00.000-08:00

I was still being indecisive when stepped into Massa,

finally Pier helped me to decide,
Perm!

Spent 3.5hrs in Massa,
with 下一站，幸福accompany me
I used to bring lappy to salon when I gotta perm/rebond it,
otherwise I would have fallen asleep there =X
But Lil Fu dropped onto the floor just 1min before I left the salon :'(

I must say the outcome is really up to my expectation,
Likey!
Luckily he made the correct judgement for me ;)
Lover man is the one most delighted,
cos he always prefer curly hair of mine

Hopefully tomorrow after I wash it,
I still manage to style back the same curl ;)

I have a dream

2010-01-13T06:49:00.000-08:00

I thought I have made up my mind last night,
after talking to a friend over the phone
So Im determined this morning,
never bring my cert to work,
cos Im not going to register for the CPA Australia course.

and somehow I feel uneasy after talking to MaoMao over the phone this morning,
so i sms XinRen again after work,
talking talking talking over the phone again,
my heart start swing here and there,
I start reconsidering,
should I actually take it?

Based on 1 question that XinRen asked me,
"It really depends on what you want"
So I asked myself what I want,
I start typing the below post,
so that I can sort out what is in my mind.

Here it goes....

What do I want?

I do not want to work as accountant for life

I do not want to work in Singapore for life

I want to earn enough money and go back Malaysia

I want to have my own business

What business? Bridal shop

Will I accomplish? Yes I think so

How many yrs do I need to accomplish? Probably 10yrs more (at most)

So…the conclusion is

I give myself 10yrs at most to earn enough money for my bridal shop

Then by the time 33 yrs old, Im married, with kids, with my bridal shop business

I manage the shop happily,

although dun earn as much as being accountant who hold professional cert,

but Im happy, I enjoy what Im doing, and I fulfilled my dream

That doesn’t sound naïve right?

I made up my mind, I will do it, I can do it!

I spend 10yrs doing smtg I dun like, for the sake of doing smtg I like for the rest of my life!

Yes, that's what I want!
and I must stand still for the decision I've made,
keep myself firm on the conclusion I've made,

I spend 10yrs doing smtg I dun like,
for the sake of doing smtg I like for the rest of my life!

If I could fast forward my life

2010-01-12T06:19:00.000-08:00

Have been thinking about the same question since last week,
Should I?
Same question again, Should I take CPA Australia?

Seriously, I don't feel like to study.
Seriously, who can tell I would be in 3yrs time?
Seriously, how many yrs more I must work as an accountant?
Seriously, if not accountant then what?
Seriously, I don't know what I want.

It's like back to those time when I was thinking which course to take in NTU.
and I hate facing such situation.
but at least last time I knew what I want,
I want a cert which can secure my job,
I want to give my parents the best I can.
That's why I choose accountancy.
However now Im working as an accountant,
I don't know how long would I want to carry my life like this.
So aimless, so clueless :(

There are angels and demons in my mind,
one telling me to do this,
another telling me to do that.

Ken said,
You're still young, and while I was 24 I also duno what I want
so if just blindly go for a cert which you dun even sure whether u want it,
then u might as well spend 2more yrs to think about what u want,
then when u're 26, u just go for what u want.
Instead of wasting 3yrs to pursue something you might not really want.
(If I dun wan to continue being an accountant, this qualification should be useless)

Adults said,
(I called these ppl Adults, cos most of them who said so are elder than me)
Study as much as u can since u're still young,
it's better to hav an additional qualification than not.
Godma even said,
I have the 女强人命格!
Sounds like if I dun study very wasted >.<

Life is full of uncertainties,
no one knows what will happen tomorrow,
not even to mention 3yrs or 10yrs later.

Ppl always say,
If I could turn back the time.
Now I'm thinking,
If I could fast forward my life :(

Two is better than One

2010-01-09T20:41:00.000-08:00

"Sherlock Holmes" checked!
I really amazed by Holmes' wisdom,
just a glance for one second,
and he can remember so much details!
There's nothing can escape from his eyes!
After all I still dozed off for 5mins =p
Cos never catch midnight show for quite some time,
tak tahan lah =="

And while I wonder its late night show,
should not have frens who catch the same movie with me,
some more I wanna sleep the next moment I reach home,
without the hassle of removing make up,
so I went out without make up (not even foundation),
totally 素颜!!!
Ppl should know that I never go out with 素颜 for quite a while,
no confidence to do that.
But so happen to be coincidence that WaiKit spotted me in front of the cinema,
and he said "Hi" to me =="
That's the first time I see him in real person,
our only connection is he always spam my fb status, lolx
And another fren of Ky, I cant recall his name
Well, since he can recognize me,
I suppose I dun look very different with or without make up.
haha.

By the time we finished that movie it's already 2am.
I have craving for McD fries!
So we headed to 24hrs McD! haha
Ever since lover man went KL,
I never had supper,
not even mention go McD with others at late night.
Haiz, sad to say, when you have a bf for 4.5yrs,
ppl tend to neglect u when they hang out at night :(

Luckily there's still Jx,
who is now single =p

xxxxx

Friday night when I got nothing to do,
I turned in at 11pm.
My bro was playing the song by Boys like Girls & Taylor Swift,
"Two is better than One"
Minutes after that I had a weird dream,
I remember those scenes,
though it would never happen in reality!
Oh man,
tell me how to get rid of u from my mind!
Arghh...

Anyway,
nice song still :)

Jom

2010-01-09T06:48:00.000-08:00

I was down with flu for the past few days,
and the ultimate result is...
I lost weight!!!
Lost 2kg in 3days,
=="
Sick is really the most effective way to lose weight
but Im not encouraging u all to fall sick ok?
Recently lots of ppl are attacked by flu virus
Me, MaoMao *I guess I transmit tat to her, sry :(
JingXi, XiaoP, My lover man...
Pls take good care of ur health
and hope all my frens recuperate soon :)

xxxxx

I finished 富贵门!
Like the ending so much!
I like Rene & Topman being together!
Topman is the desired bf that every girl sought after!

xxxxx

Heard from SiChyi that ppl are talking behind of me,
some gossips, which are not true at all!
I never got mad, yet laughed
cos I wonder me as a 24yrs old jiejie,
still being a gossip topic?
hahaha
Well, all I care about is,
ppl who understands me, still understands me :)

xxxxx

Finally I bought Hada Labo moisturizing toner
Full of Hyaluronic Acid! (玻尿酸)
Tried just now for the first time,
real nice & hydra!
It got absorbed into my skin in seconds!
gotta post the review next time!

xxxxx

XeX has "Back to School" party tonight!
Wow, must be happening!
But Im heading out to catch "Sherlock Holmes" later,
so...next time then ;)
Thanks for being such a nice fren,
catch this movie for the 2nd time with me
I appreciate :)

xxxxx

This post is random,
like rojak all mix together,
I agree!
lolx

MurMur

2010-01-03T04:44:00.000-08:00

有些事发生了，
你才知道什么朋友值得交，
什么朋友不值得交。

有些人，
不要当我是三岁小孩那样哄骗，
这种话连三岁小孩听了都会觉得是
“屁话”
（没办法，现在的三岁小孩喝的奶粉都超神的，
他们的思考能力和反应根本就是小大人那样）

Next time,
u will be the last person I will call/look for.
Next week yam cha?
See how first.

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妈咪今天早上陪我去看《十月围城》
“妈，第一排咧，还是我们不要看了回家吧？”
“第一排就第一排咯，都来到这里了”
“可是我怕你看到很辛苦，等下颈会酸”
“哎呀，不要紧啦，你要看嘛，我陪你看咯”
I have the sweetest mother in this world ^^

Pathetic

2010-01-02T08:19:00.000-08:00

很无奈的一个星期六夜晚。
我想看《十月围城》，
Jusco 1130pm是今晚剩下的唯一一场，
可是还是没有看到。

一整天就在问人，
有没有人要陪我看，
问到最后是真的有点绝望，
人家不是看过了，
就是不感兴趣，
要不然就有别的活动，
绝望到我想自己一个人买票去戏院看。
从来没有试过这么可怜，
想要自己一个人去看电影。

你没有办法想像我前前后后竟然问了超过10个人要不要看戏，
and I even called the last person that I would call!
End up 还是识趣点自己说没关系，算了。

朋友叫我出去，
喝茶喝酒都有。
PPS上一大堆戏可以看，
还可以做mask，
face mask, hair mask，什么mask都有。
其实找些事来做，
时间也很快过。
但我今晚就是只想看《十月围城》。
有时巨蟹座的人，
就是不懂在坚持个什么劲儿 @.@

结果弄到自己觉得自己很可怜，
好像完全没有价值那样，
我什么时候变成这样没有价值？
然后开始哭，
哭的点是什么？
因为我变成 valueless 了

女人闷到一个点，
真的就会无理取闹发脾气。
我很sad，
从来没有那么可怜过，
sad到眼泪不停的掉。

后来还好msn上得到一些安慰，
谢谢今晚在msn陪着我的人。
U all make my night,
I appreciate :)

那个刚才骗我上当的男人，
休得对你的first owner无礼！;p
不过那句话我当真，
管你是不是开玩笑！

Goodbye 2009

2009-12-31T07:37:00.000-08:00

*I know, I feel like to punch my face though,
23yrs old still giving this expression
but still wanna post this up =X *

2009 gone,
just like in a blink of eyes.
Recalling what I have done for 2009,
Seems not much great achievement though.
Compare to 2009,
I prefer my 2008,
which I travelled to a lot of countries,
and totally new experience for me
But what bypass is bypass
so what I need to do now is to look forward 2010
New Year Resolution?
I have not set any actually

But most important of all,
I want a happy 2010
Hopefully my prince charming can fetch me back to castle,
and feed me for life, lolx
I wanna be Shao Nai Nai!
（少奶奶）

Let's end 2009 with some webcam pix of mine,
taken moments ago,
cos being too bored on the last day of 2009

Pix below,
named as "No evil"
haha
Ohya,
Happy New Year 2010 everyone!
Now 12am sharp!
haha

Dec

2009-12-28T06:20:00.000-08:00

Dec is another busy month
D&D on the 19th Dec 2009
I got myself a colorful dress,
for the theme, Color-Gagalicious ;)

I won the Ms Best Dressed 3rd place in this outfit
being called up to the stage for some impromptu dance -.-
*My department-Finance*

After all, I din win anything for Lucky Draw,
despite of the grand prize is actually a 55" LED Plasma TV
(LED but not LCD, means that it is actually slimmer and power saving,
heard that market price is SGD7K!!!)

Second round, we went to Clarke Quay,
a bar called "Lunar"
mainly Canto-pop
The lead singer Alex is charming,
avoid to have eye contact with him if you happen to go there next time,
otherwise 后果自负, lol

Full of fun that night,
it's really rare that we colleagues can chill out together,
nice to have u all ;)

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*The lil Xmas tree I bought, but it's dying now :'( *

It's Xmas time!
I had forced leave on Xmas eve,
so I went back JB,
and attended a Xmas eve dinner with my family,Me & Mama :)
*My family*
Its at Grand Straits View Restaurant（新湖滨）
A dinner held by Good Shepherd Church.
Although we are not Christian,
but my aunty & her family are.

Yes, this is the "thinking of it even when I was dreaming" Topshop dress,
I got it!!!

Being called up to the stage again -.-
For the sake of my cousin and his inpromtu drama
that's lil Jesus of the night standing in the middle
and I'm Mary, cousin is Joseph, lol
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on the Xmas actual day 25th Dec
*Outfit of the night*

I met my best sistaz for dinner
Dinner @ Nando's
Then we had gift exchange
*credit to MaoMao for editting pix above*

Then I got this as my prezzie
Sze, u know me so well, lolx

Headed to Roost Bistro for 2nd round
see the coolest ever Mr Santa sitting on top, haha
Props of the night, Reindeer hairband ;p

While I was waiting for them at Plaza Pelangi Metrojaya,
there is a booth of Unicef
(In case you wonder what is Unicef, pls refer to this website
http://www.unicef.org/malaysia/)
I decided to commit myself to the monthly donation plan,
which will be charged to my credit card
I find myself had the most meaningful and happiest Xmas ever
I hope those children will have a Merry Xmas too ;)
When your heart is filled with love,
you feel love is in the air^^

阿嫲走了

2009-12-10T07:25:00.000-08:00

12月8号傍晚6点20分，
阿嫲走了。
但愿她在天堂可以得到
永恒的快乐。

阿嫲

2009-12-06T05:57:00.000-08:00

这两天都往医院跑，
因为阿嫲住院了，
身体很不舒服。
医生说是脑中风。
看到婆婆的肚子肿肿的，
手脚也肿肿的，
呼吸时而缓慢时而急促，
身体瘦的只剩皮包骨，
双颊都凹了进去，
实在是让人很心疼。

因为住的远，
我是个跟阿嫲一年才见几次的孙女。
只记得阿嫲的手每次都皱皱的，
因为她总是把手浸在水里，
洗菜洗鱼要洗很久，
别人洗的快她总是说不干净。
每年大年初一早上醒来第一个找的是阿嫲，
她肯定在厨房忙着煮，
然后跟阿嫲说“新年快乐，万事如意，身体健康”
阿嫲会对我说“艾琳乖，要用心读书，听爸爸妈妈话”
每次新年从kampung要回家时，
阿嫲会把kampung蛋准备好给我们，
阿嫲的kampung蛋就是有跟人家不一样的好吃。

阿嫲今年77了，
老人家到了这个时候就是会有很多身体的毛病开始出现。
从一开始的老人痴呆，
到后来的全身无力，
然后现在脑中风，
我知道情况越来越不乐观。
阿嫲之前一直认错我是表姐，
到我每个星期去看她都一直在问她我是谁，
然后她终于讲得出我是艾琳。
可是现在她躺在医院里，
就连眼睛也不怎么睁得开，
更别说是叫我的名字了。
一直在她耳边叫她睁开眼睛看看我们，
孩子来了，孙子来了，亲戚也来了，
但阿嫲就是眼睛睁开才一下下又闭起来了。

艾琳是哭包，
看着阿嫲这样辛苦，
管子在她身上脸上插来插去的，
忍不住又掉眼泪了。
我真的宁愿阿嫲就这样解脱，
也不想她继续痛苦下去。

今天我的天空，
是乌云密布的 :(

Xmas Tree Hunting @ Singapore

2009-11-26T07:05:00.000-08:00

Xmas in the air^^
Xmas tree at Suntec

Xmas Deco in Wisma Atria
a special birdie cage
Kass & YT was trapped! Help!
lol

I guess the theme this year is all about Reindeer
Cos I saw Reindeer all along the Orchard Road

A really HUGE LV bag in front of Ngee Ann City,
it's specially made for the expansion of LV store in Ngee Ann City
Come to Mama,
I want you back home =x

Xmas Tree at Takashimaya

Xmas Tree at Paragon

Xmas deco at Tangs
The Chocolate Shoppe at Tangs

Xmas Tree at ION Orchard

Have you noticed there is an entrance for this Xmas Tree at ION
when you actually go into the Xmas tree,
this is something amazed me!
A.W.E.S.O.M.E!

They used 3,720 LED lights to decorate this Xmas tree which is 9m tall!

Some snapshots along the trip

A very cute lil girl we spotted in front of Taka

LG Crystal <3

2009-11-26T06:52:00.000-08:00

After pondering for weeks,
I finally got my desired LG Crystal

Sayang said she knows I will get it sooner or later,
no matter it has the Singtel promo or not
and the truth is,
I got it at SDG198 from Singtel Xmas Fair @ Suntec ;)
a SGD100 savings, yuppi!

Deeply in love with the design,
transparent keypad
Can see through my eyes ;)

What's in the box...
*a typo error here, it's USB cable, not USD* -.-

It comes with a free gift of LG bluetooth headset
compatible design with LG crystal
quite stylish though ;)

after all I have been using NK5800 for quite a while,
still in the process of getting used to LG functions
So far Im pretty satisfied with it,
the only downside should be short batt life
I guess I have to keep a charger in office

Ohya, that day I realize mobile phone USB cable can actually recharge the phone!
Though ppl told me this was known long time ago
I sua gu mah! =p

Mama loves you, muax <3

每個女孩身邊都有一個不是男朋友的男朋友

2009-11-23T05:57:00.000-08:00

《转载自facebook，作者Chin Ling Tan》

每個女孩身邊都有一個不是男朋友的男朋友你們可能相愛過

，你們也可能喜歡著彼此，但是，為了什麼原因你們沒能在一起？

也許他為了朋友之間的義氣，不能追你。
也許為了顧及家人的意見，你們沒有在一起。
也許為了出國深造，他沒有要你等他。
也許你們相遇太早，還不懂得珍惜對方。
也許你們相遇太晚，你們身邊已經有了另一個人。
也許你回頭太遲，對方已不再等待。
也許你們彼此在捉摸對方的心，而遲遲無法跨出界線。

不過即使你們沒在一起，你們還是保持了朋友的關係。
但是你們心底清楚，對這個人，你比朋友還多了一份關心。

即使不能跟他名正言順的牽著手逛街，你們還是可以做無所不談的朋友。

他有喜歡的人，你口頭上會幫他追，心裏卻不是很清楚你是不是真的希望他追到。

他遇到困難時，你會盡你所能的幫他，不會計較誰又欠了誰。

男女朋友吃醋了，你會安撫他們說你和他只是朋友，但你心中會有那麼一絲的不確定。

每個人這輩子，心中都有過這麼一個特別的朋友，很矛盾的行為。

一開始你不甘心只做朋友的，但久了，突然發現這樣最好。你寧願這樣關心他，總好過你們在一起而有天會分手。

你寧願做他的朋友，彼此不會吃醋，才可以真的無所不談。

特別是這樣，你還是知道，他永遠會關心你的。

做不成男女朋友，當他那個特別的朋友，有什麼不好呢？你心中的這個特別的朋友...?

是誰呢？

很多的感情，都因為一廂情願，最後連朋友都當不成了。常常覺得惋惜，可惜一些本來很好的友情。

最後卻因為對方的一句喜歡你，如果你沒有反應，這一段友情似乎也難以維持下去，這也難怪有些人會因此不肯踏出這一步。
因為這就像是一場賭注，表白了之後不是成了男女朋友，要不就連朋友都當不成了。

有些事不是你能預料的，或許對方不在意，你們還可以是朋友，但卻已經不如從前的好.

Win a Prada Wallet

2009-11-22T07:49:00.001-08:00

契约爱情

2009-11-16T06:41:00.000-08:00

很久没有写一些心情感触，
今天跟湘君在msn聊着她杂志的新主题，
关于男女关系。
说着说着就讲到“契约爱情”
Contract Relationship

这样的term，不知道现在的年轻人还知不知道。
不过当初我16岁的时候，
确实有过这样的一种trend存在。

所谓“契约爱情”
两个人的关系建立在契约的基础上，
订好契约期限，
可以是1个月，甚至是1个星期。
在这段期限内，
两个人扮演好情侣的角色，
就是谈恋爱那样。
期限一到，
大家退回原本的位置，
我们只是朋友。

这样的契约爱情，
有个避忌。
没有所谓续约，
期限一到就是个结束。
倘若有人跨越了那个界限，
要求的不只是契约而是
真正的感情，
那么只好关系破裂，
就连朋友的关系也很难维系。

对于契约爱情，
湘君给了一个评论
“这样的爱情不是太儿戏了吗？”
曾经还年轻的时候，
曾经觉得爱情大过天的时候，
我们认为每一段都是那么的认真。
如今回想，
原来那样的爱情
只是儿戏。

其实契约爱情里，
到底有没有所谓的“爱”存在？
还是，
只是两个寂寞的人
玩的一场游戏？

Starbucks moments

2009-11-08T01:38:00.000-08:00

I'm in love with Starbucks Hot Choc ever since I went US for few months
under the cold weather of single digit,
u feel warm holding Starbucks Hot Choc

I miss those Starbucks moments in Houston Airport,
waiting for boarding to
Florida,
NYC,
Norway...
Life is so wonderful ;)

Norway business trip (22-26Sep)

2009-10-19T02:45:00.000-07:00

This is a catch up post on my Norway business trip during end of September

Wanna share the nice scenery with u all =)

That was a 5D4N trip, for the sake of two days courses on Financial Standards.
First, it's about the food
Me and my two colleagues went Oslo for lunch after touch ground,

The Eataly restaurant,

we all had three different kind of pastas!

Oslo is still a beautiful city as 1yr ago when I was here (:I love the air,
I love the scenery,

I love the weather,

I love Norway kids!!!

The troll from Norway

The City Hall

My colleague said this is seagull,

how come it doesn't look like those seagull we used to draw in the sketch book?!
I find this interesting,
the guy simply put in those recyclable bottles into the machine,
and he is reimbursed with money!
10NOK each!
wow, so advance!

Finally we arrived at the Scandic Hotel in Asker
Hotel room is quite cozy

During the first night after training, we were arranged to visit the Art Museum there

I am not really a art people (although i study art & commerce during high school)
but this is one of the art piece that I like the most
the shadow reflected on the wall is like a skeleton
The gigantic BANANA! haha
Some other art pieces

The Asia Pacific Team
including Singapore, Msia and Australia
me & Sylvia, accouting manager from Perth

While doing transit in Frankfurt airport, finally had this sausage platter!
I love German Sausage!

Back to S'pore with these lil bottles,
gifts for my man ;)
I SWEAR,
Im gonna get myself something start with "L"
if I have a Europe trip next time!
I MEAN IT

Wake me up, when September ends

2009-10-03T02:38:00.000-07:00

Busy Busy Busy!
September is all about B.U.S.Y!
Now I'm going to have a one shot posting about
all things I've done in September!
Let's get it started!

12092009
Meet up with Si Chyi, Xin Rui, Pei Lian, Lee Sze, Scor
at Tmn Sutera
cos it's our queen Si Chyi's birthday
All of us
and the very yummy Mille Crepe oreo cake (:

15092009
Meet up with Si Chyi & Esther
at ION Orchard
That was the first time I went to ION Orchard,
it's really HUGE!
The shop layout is confusing too!
We spotted this Itacho Japanese Restaurant,
it is totally up to our expectation and satisfaction,
in their service, food, atmosphere and pricing!
*Si Chyi busy placing order*
The Must Eat Shark fin Chawan Mushi

The Must Eat Salmon 一口饭团～
Flying Fish Roe

Eel Omelette Rice
Tempura Ramen

The whole table of food which only cost us SGD45 in total~
Strongly recommended~

We talked about our current job,
and Esther told us she loves her job,
enjoy it a lot!
I really admire her,
found a job which she really enjoys,
and at the same time can pursue her financial stewardship.
How lovely a life could be like this~
Who can tell me,
when could I find a job I enjoy?! -.-

18092009
I was given one more day off for Ramadhan Holiday
Thanks to my company for giving such "forced leave" -.-
Loverman's decided to bring his family to go Malacca for a one day trip
*His bro, sis & me*

the famous chicken riceball in Malacca
Jonker Street Cendol^^

I love this portrait of Me & Loverman (:

19092009
It's sistaz night out at Cabana~
We are not regular chiong-ster,
but we enjoy every single time we chiong together!
*Kass & Joey happened to wear the same checked dress**Kass, XiangJun, Joey, Maxine & Me*

It's the first time I try Flaming Lamborghini,
it taste nice though! haha
I wanna clarify something,
although my face is the reddest among all,
but I'm not drunk,
you all gotta trust me!!!

The last week of September ended with a business trip to Norway
This time is to attend a course at Asker
a 2days course, consumes my 5days in total for the journey -.-
It is tiring indeed,
but I love Norway as much as 1 year ago
Im gonna blog about Norway in my next post
more pix to be uploaded, stay tuned (:

I'm gonna end this post with a song from Greenday
Wake me up when September ends
Cos...budget 2010 preparation is coming to screw me up!!!
Enjoy the song~

090909 The Real Proposal-featuring Leng Yein

2009-09-12T05:23:00.000-07:00

090909

Only once in a lifetime
A lot of people actually ROM or propose on that day
and I think the most admiring one will be
The Real Proposal-featuring Leng Yein

The first surprise early in the morning
Billboard at Tropicana City Mall towards highway
The Real Proposal on 090909 9:09am
2nd surprise
full page in The Star newspaper
3rd surprise of the day,
proposal night at Leng Yein's mamak stall
which becomes super pinkish

with lots of desserts, especially cupcakes
Cupcakes with very details deco as toppingsLeng Yein-the female lead,
with banners of the Real Proposal

Her lil Dino-Jilo Jilo One
so suave today (:"Will you marry me?"
I think her heart just meltssss...

Every fren gets a souvenir
Finally the most important moment of the day

The heart-shaped diamond ring from De Gem

OMG! This is my dream ring!!!
The band is in heart shaped too!!!

I can only say that she got the surprises which every girls would love to have!
Envious envious!

Hey guys, now I'm spreading the tips to you all about how to win a girl's heart
I'm sure every girl will melt if you do these things!
Of course, provided that you are rich enough =x

More pix available at Leng Yein's fb

心情独白

2009-09-08T08:18:00.000-07:00

我一直都不是个懒惰工作的人。
从中学14岁开始就一直断断续续的打工，
到了16岁时每个周末傍晚都会去云华宫做part time，
一直到自己高三毕业。
这样3年来的打工生涯，
就算是放工回家凌晨1点才睡，
我也没有想要停下来。
因为我是个口袋空空就会很没有安全感的人，
所以我不停打工，
不停让自己的口袋饱满一些。

但最近的我对工作尤其厌倦，
每天11点睡觉，早上6点起床，
7点半上班，5点下班，
放工回家途中打包晚餐，
然后又是11点睡觉，早上6点起床，
就这样一直重复着。
我不喜欢一早醒来看不到太阳，
我不喜欢每天的晚餐都要打包，
我不喜欢晚上什么私人时间都没有就11点要睡觉。
尽管那么多的不喜欢，
我也不能做什么来改变这一切。

工作上有很多不如意的事，
做事情总是没有办法达到上司的要求，
粗心的我常犯错，
偏偏有些错是完全不能犯的。
今天就因为做错事就一早被训了一顿，
才被讲不到两句就泪眼汪汪，
我很努力的忍住让自己看起来ok。
流泪不是因为被冤枉而觉得委屈什么的，
而是很气自己怎么东西总是做不好。
不明白为什么东西check了又check还是可以有错？
不明白为什么10样东西要check我却总只check了9样？
不明白为什么我明明没有delete的row会不见掉？
很多的不明白
我承认自己记性差，
所以根本连自己有没有delete到row都不记得，
不敢大声说我没有。
我承认自己疏忽，
所以总是check少一样，而偏偏那一样出错。
这些毛病我都懂，
单是为什么总避免不了？
开始觉得，
不知道到底是我不适合这工作？
还是这工作不适合我？

这份工作做得很累，
有时累到自己上一秒明明在想要开一个file，
下一秒进入了那个folder我就忘了我要开的是哪一个file，
或者是开了那个file我又忘了我是要开来做什么。
每次东西不会做，
才开始想没有多久头就疼，
越想就越疼，
但又不可以不想。
我怀疑自己患上什么“工作恐惧症”这类的。

因为这样的问题，
我想要开cafe的念头越来越强烈，
不想继续做个不开心的打工仔。
但眼前还有一年的bond要fulfill，
所以不是什么自由身要走就走。
就算别人用扫把赶我走，
还要求情让我留下来。
只是以前做工都有一个期限，
你知道自己开学了就不能继续做full time，
所以内心有个期限，就做到开学吧～
云华宫的part time也是，
知道自己毕业了就会去找个full time来做，
所以心里也默默有个期限。
唯独现在踏入社会了，
没有什么期限可言，
到底要做到几岁，
没有人知道。
没有期限，所以没有一个寄托来倒数。
渐渐的，
我变成一个讨厌工作的人，
但我是个怕没有钱的人，
所以“讨厌工作”跟“怕没有钱”这两样东西摆在一起，
根本拿不到一个平衡点。
还是处在茫然之中。

－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－
心情本来要以 :( 这个符号当作今天的结束，
结果我男人刚刚从JB带了他自己煮的干贝粥进来新加坡给我吃，
（因为这两天生病都没什么胃口吃东西）
谢谢你把我今天的结束划上了一个 :)
Love you

Kazee Cafe

2009-08-29T05:35:00.000-07:00

*I actually stole some pix from PeiPei to post here, hope u dun mind*
Kazee Cafe is not simply a cafe,
but cafe+boutique+salon
a 3-in-1 combination!

I came across this cafe in PeiPei's bloggie,
last weekend had yumcha session with Snake,
so I propose to go to this cafe at Tmn Gaya.

I always like to observe the deco in cafe,
and the first thing that attracts me here is their wall painting

Very random wall paintings in the cafe,

Eiffel Tower at the cashier counter,
Flowers on top of the console table,

Puppies with love next to the book rack,
I love them all!

The seating arrangement in Kazee is pretty comfortable too,
some makes u feel like sitting on the sofa at home,
some makes u feel like sitting in the middle of garden~

Walking across the glass door,
it leads me to Kazee boutique.

The second thing which catch my attention is lamp
Floral lamp is so girlish and romantic :)

Boutique pricing is reasonable,
and they are having National Days promotion now :)
Nowadays I find boutiques selling more unique clothing,
one day I gotta organize a "boutique hopping" day with my sistaz!

I did not take pix of food that day,
bcos we just simply order some snacks and cake,
but I must recommend their Oreo Cookies & Cream cake to you all,
it's heavenly nice~

*The very lame joke about how to put an Ele into the fridge*

Lady boss serve the fruit for free,
they actually cut into cube,
makes me feel like mama is cutting fruit in the kitchen :)

And they actually have a Kazee Salon near to the cafe,
I havent checked that out,
perhaps anyone can visit there and give us some feedback? :)

Afterall, it's quite a nice place for friend's gathering!
And after visiting this place,
it makes me have stronger urge to own a cafe!
I know I'll have it one day!

KAZEE Cafe / KAZEE FASHION STUDIO
No. 3, Jalan Sasa 4, Taman Gaya, 81800 Ulu Tiram, Johor Bahru.
07- 861 4235
Operating hours：1200-2200（Fri & Sat：1200-2400）
Monday off
http://kazeecafe.blogspot.com/
http://kazeeboutique.blogspot.com/

15 Malaysia

2009-08-25T05:58:00.000-07:00

I came across this in JBtalks advertisement
This is one of the trailers for <15>
featuring Namewee! teehee!

15Malaysia is a short film project. It consists of 15 short films made by 15 Malaysian filmmakers. These films not only deal with socio-political issues in Malaysia, they also feature some of the best-known faces in the country, including actors, musicians and top political leaders. You may think of them as funky little films made by 15 Malaysian voices for the people of Malaysia.

For more info, please visit the official website
http://15malaysia.com/

Yellow by Coldplay

2009-08-25T05:52:00.000-07:00

A not very new song,

but still feel like to share,
make me recall of the cute pub singer at HK :)

Days off with lover boy

2009-08-23T03:55:00.000-07:00

*This happened during the Singapore National Day holiday*

Lover man brought me to KL AGAIN!
This time plus Genting somemore,
cos the last time we went to Genting was like 3yrs ago!

Of cos this is meant to be a shopping+makan trip
With GPS, I found the way to Bangsar Village,
a place with so many nice bistro, cafe, boutique!

Too bad as I dun have much time to go shop boutique by boutique,
manage to grab 1 dress from this shop called "Dude & Duchess"
I like the name of this shop!

They sell real nice dresses and tops
although a bit pricey
but the one I bought is under 60% sales item, wiu whit!

Then we went Sungai Wang again,
here is where I got my belated birthday present from lover man,
a SK diamond ring :)
Have been searching up and down,
and finally I got it!
Well, it's not meant to be engagement ring,
so dun ask me when I will get married,
definitely not now ;)

Dinner at Dragon-i cos lover man wanna try their xiao long bao
well he said it's not as nice as SG Ding Tai Fung
Their menu which cost RM500 each -.-

Dinner of the night

Then we headed towards Genting with his fren
Having Hot Choc in Genting is definitely joyous!

Breakfast @ Coffee Bean the next day morning

Break O'Day!

I find Genting a bit hot though,
that's why Im just wearing a tank top
with the layered skirt and super kawaii boots!

This is the first time I entered casino ever since Im qualified as 21yrs old,
so...
我想被check ic!!! hahaha
I know it sounds silly, but 我喜欢！
and finally 奸计得逞,
the security guard did check my IC!
wakaka!
I think it's my keep sending signal to him
"Check my IC! Check my IC! Check my IC!"

Had lunch at Chuan Ji restaurant before heading back to JB
all time fav' 咸鱼花南煲

Looking forward to the next outing with you,
thanks and muacks!

Fullhouse @ NZX

2009-08-22T20:53:00.000-07:00

There is this cafe called "Fullhouse" in PJ
I always see pix of it in forum
or even many frens of mine already visited this cafe before
and finally I got the chance to go there!

In view of the Singapore National Day
I took one more day off and went KL with my lover man
Since my NK5800 already equipped with GPS,
it is totally not a problem to find Fullhouse

Fullhouse is located at NZX (Niu Ze Xui) @ Ara Damansara
You cant really spot Fullhouse when you drive pass unless walk into the mall

The first thing attracts me is the mini cooper displayed at front door,
sky blue in color,
with striped cushion which is very "Paul-Smith" feel

Waiters and waitress greet us in Korean language,
cos Fullhouse is actually a Korean drama
featuring Rain & Song Hye Kyo
We were brought to be seated in 2nd floor.

Menu looks exactly like a comic,
so colorful and interesting lil stories :)
We ordered 2 sets of set meals,
1. Caesar Salad with Salmon
2. Ham & Mushroom Spaghetti
both come with a Forest Mushroom Soup & Iced Lemon Tea
Dessert is my fav'

I think owner spent lots of time and effort in terms of the deco of Fullhouse
I simply love every corner here!

Let the picture tells the story now

The princess bed
Bathtub?!

Everything you see in your eyes are available for sale,
from clothing to accessories,
and home deco too :)

I think most of the clothing here imported from Korea
Pricing is mid range,
for example their home brand Fullhouse tee is RM59.90

Too bad my lover man was sick that day
(yet he insisted dun wanna waste the leave that we both have applied)
otherwise we would have taken more pix

and I'm very sure if it was me and my sistaz who came here together
we would be taking pix as if it's nobody business!!!
Wakaka

Kass, Sze, Joey & Agnes,
set this place as our first destination for our next KL trip, okays?
I like this magazine rack which comes in 3 sizes,
sheep alike :)
小小羊儿要回家 =p

The food is generally not bad,
and it's cheap though,
only RM37.90 for two person,
a 3 courses meal somemore!
*Best shot of the day, I heart him :)*

Even a few weeks after I visited Fullhouse,
I keep telling my lover man that I wanna own a cafe like this!
I love the ambiance,
friends gathering together at a nice cafe,
take pix with the lovely deco
(simply dun understand why there are some cafe which dun allow people to take pix nowadays-.-)
and this place will be full of laughters,
sweet memories <3

Bday month for Joey & Kass

2009-08-17T07:01:00.000-07:00

Kass' bday on 11th Aug

Joey's bday on 13th Aug
We had cupcakes party for both of them at MOET bistro

MOET bistro is located at the previous Boca Cafe
I like the ambiance and deco there
especially the portiere and those retro pix on the wall

The Ham & Chicken Roll which were published on newspapers, tadah!

Drinks of the day @ MOET Bistro

Cupcakes <3
They are so cute and adorable!!!

May all your birthday wishes come true
May all the best in career, love and life
May our sistaz-ship be forever and ever <3>

Sayang's Convo^^

2009-08-01T06:53:00.001-07:00

Finally the last convo I'm attending in the month of July

my Sayang-MaoMao's day (:

It was also Engineering School convo on the same day same session,
so I saw a lot of frens too

John

Lit Yung

JingXi

Finally MaoMao is here

The whole family coming to support her
Granpa, Papa, Mama, Aunty & Brother (Specially back from KL)

Special roses from MaoMao's gorgor

The Clementi Blk338 gang :)

Half way through the Convo ceremony,
she came out to take pix, teehee

Some words for MaoMao:
Congratulations! You've made it!
Although life might be tougher now,
we all strive it hard!
Jiayou~

Deserved it

2009-07-29T08:49:00.000-07:00

有些东西，
不知道的时候很想知道，
知道了之后又宁愿自己不知道。
我就是这样矛盾的一个人。

只是想跟一个人说说我的心情，
虽然我已经有千百个理由足以劝服自己。

唯一一个听我说话的人，
结果回了我一句
“那要怎么办？”

我怀疑，
我们到底适不适合。

I agree,
people deserve for the amount of effort that you put in.
I just did not work hard enough.

不够格

2009-07-27T07:31:00.000-07:00

很奇怪的，
在生自己的气。

很想喊一句，
“姚艾琳，
由始至终你都不够格！”

生闷气最笨的就是没人懂。

我，
不想理你。

♥All about You & Me♥

2009-07-23T06:21:00.000-07:00

Recent photos of my lover man and me

*I realized he aint young anymore, so I should call him "lover man" rather than "lover boy"*

KL trip on 18th July 2009
Actually he wants to go there to install body kit of his new ride
so I just follow and take this chance to walk walk eat eat at KL =)

See how smart he is with the RayBan new shades, haha

x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

21 July 2009
it's our monthly anniversary-21st of the month
Lover man came Singapore so we decided to go Kui Shinbo for buffet dinner

*Kui Shinbo @ Jurong Point*

He's busy taking all sorts of sushi
eat all you can! haha

Sushi, SnowCrab, Scallop, Desserts! Yummy!Scissors to cut snowcrab

and they serve Choco Fondue too~
Ok, the pix below has different color tone cos I change the setting

They have some special dish served when they play the song
"Dong Dong Dong, Kui Shinbo,
Dong Dong Dong, 1 2 3"
for the first 30 persons who queue,
first come first serve!
and I manage to get this in the first round! yeah!

Dear busy taking out the crab meat for me (:

What a sumptuous dinner (:
I guess 21st of the month is just another excuse for me to have big treat =p

Forever 21,
U know I know
Love u

♥

Xiang Jun's Convo @ UCSI

2009-07-22T07:04:00.000-07:00

I went KL last Sat with my sistaz for beloved Xiang Jun's convo at UCSI
I was supposed to stay at KL on Friday night then wait for they all to come,
end up things cocked up and I went back JB
Travelled to KL twice within two days,
back and forth from JB to KL,
1200km++ fuyoh!
I was damn tired actually -.-
Slept at 445am Sat morning
followed them to go KL at 7am Sat morning -.-

Reached KL at 10am,
met up with Xiang Jun's special fren-Enrico
He brought us to eat the super damn nice 辣椒板面
at Tmn Cannaught
Oh man, I miss that!

Special flower bought for Xiang Jun
Sunflower by us

Eustoma by Enrico

and a cute Graduation bear^^

We sat in the cafeteria for 2hrs,
their ceremony is so damn long man -.-
215pm finally Xiang Jun came out from her convo!!!
Picture session!

After the convo we went Mid Valley specially for the Krispy Kreme
Heard that it is the only outlet in Malaysia!
Must try then!

Nice lighting to take pic in Krispy Kreme

I was totally exhausted after the two days KL trip
but nice to be with u galz,
love u much =)

LV never full!

2009-07-20T08:22:00.000-07:00

成熟的爱情

2009-07-20T06:13:00.000-07:00

有一位心理学家曾写过，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：

- 共存(Codependent)
- 反依赖(Counterdependent)
- 独立(Independent)
- 共生(Interdependent)

第一个阶段：共存

这是热恋期间，情人不论何时何地总希望能黏在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖

等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。

第三个阶段：独立

这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。

第四个阶段：共生

这时新的相处之道已经成形，你的他/她已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持，一起开创属于你们自己的人
生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。

很多时候，恋情只要过了一段较长的时间，两个人之间有着心照不宣的默契。我们常觉得，事情不需要说得太明，以对方对我们的了解，他是会明白的。很多事情变得很自然，自然得像理所当然那样，也有人说是种“习惯”，两个人像家人多过于情人。原来这就是所谓的“共生”阶段。

一直在想，要怎么跟同一个人度过一辈子？一辈子看着他，一辈子睡在身边的是同一个他，一辈子一起生活的是同一个他。想起来就觉得是很可怕的事，万一有一天不想看到他，该往哪里逃？

看完了这篇有了不一样的想法，原来当爱情进入“共生”的阶段，激情浪漫不再变得跟热恋是时那么重要，变换而来的是互相扶持，互相成长。就像我们跟家人之间不会计较太多，我们只要每天生活在一起就觉得很幸福。由情人变成家人，我觉得大概就是这个意思。

矛盾于“情人”和“家人”这两个字眼，我想这就是为什么有些人选择恋爱一辈子也不结婚的原因。

你的爱情，走到了哪一个阶段呢？

Evian Roller Babies

2009-07-14T08:50:00.000-07:00

A very interesting adv to share
Enjoy =)